Holy crap has it been a long time since I’ve posted on here last! So an update, I no longer live in Northern New York. I moved out to the buffalo area about a year ago, and I just got an apartment with my a roommate and my fiancĂ©. All was going well until…tonight.
So he has to be up at 3:50 to be to work at 5. So he was already in bed and I was watching TV. As the time came near for me to go to bed as well, he was upset and homesick. Now I know all about homesickness. I’ve gone through it before, but I went through it alone. People would tell me, “now you don’t have to say goodbye anymore.” More backstory, my fiancĂ© and I did long distance for three years. Fast forward to now, he thinks I’m annoyed with him because I distinctly remember him telling me that. We only moved twenty minutes away from his mother’s house so it’s not like we can’t go and visit.
I offered to have my parents bring my bed down so we can have it there in case he wants to stay the night but that’s counter active to trying to get over homesickness. I don’t know. I’m not an empathetic person whatsoever, but now he’s upset with me and I don’t know what to do anymore. Nothing I says helps him at all, and it doesn’t seem like he wants my company now.